What is Personality Devlopment?
Many people mistake the physical appearance and various external characteristic of an individual as his or' her personality. As they talk about a marvellous personality they may refer to the height, weight, stature. and complexion . Well, if you think that it is just the. Appearance or the physique of a person that determines the personality, it is time to have a rethink. It is true that physical appearance does matter, However, since most of them are beyond our power and control, it is useless to waste our time and energy thinking on them. Though physical appearance can help , there are many other aspects that contribute greatly to one's personality.
Today, Personality is considered the 'Brand Image ' of an individual. In simple terms it is made up of three aspect namely.
Character Behaviour Attitude
Basically , personality Devlopment is the improvement of behaviour communication skills, interpersonal relationships, attitude towards life and ethics Character can be considered the basic factor in determining an individual's personality. There are serveral psychologist who say that improving characters and behavior alone will largely influence one"s personality. It is a fact that all other factor behind a powerful personality will become useless if the person lacks a good character and behavior .
Personality is like a building . Just as a building can exist only when it has a strong foundation, a personality can impress other only when it has a formidable basis. And the strong foundations is supplied by character and behavior . If personality is developed on the solid base of values and ethics , it will last forever . Fake smiles and mannerisms may attract others for a comparatively short period. However they are are short - lived and do not help in improving one's personality .
Good behavior and co-operation makes a man popular. As a result the possibilities of his progress .and success is much more. Different people have deterrent opinion about what makes a man's personality complete. There are serveral scientists who have the view point that character does not form a part of personality, but Steven Covery , one of the all time gnat authors and motivators says that the best personality should be based on the solid foundation of character.
The paeson who want to improve his to have desire and determination he has to identify the direction for his goals to achieve it. Onece all the above three steps are taken he has to dedicate himself to the task of achieving his goal. Every human being is a unique creature . Therefore in addition to the various common components, each one should develop his or her characteristic of personality . Always remember that blindly following someone else who is successful will never take you in the directionright for you.
There are immense possibilities within you to develop your personality with strong character . You must recognize and understand them. The key to success is hidden within you . The wealth you have earned is not important but what is importantis the means you have adopted for acquiring that wealth. Your personality " your capabilities, your thoughts and your ideals are all very important in determining your character . Here we will discuss some essential components of personality Development.
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